Frotteurism is a paraphilic interest in rubbing, usually one’s pelvic area or erect penis, against a non-consenting person for sexual pleasure. It may involve touching any part of the body, including the genital area.
Since I have been black-balled from my family, they say because of Fred, whatever, I just thought I’d let the rest of the World know. I really don’t care about secrecy or anything else any more.
When I was a kid my brother used to rub against me while my mother was asleep beside us in the bed. I did not know what to do. He was my brother so I thought that was what they did. I did not like it.
When I got older we were visiting my mother in Idaho for Christmas. I was 16 at the time. I believe my brother and his girlfriend were either just married or about to get married. When his wife was asleep on the couch, and I was asleep in my mom’s bedroom, my brother came in and had intercourse with me. again I did not know what to do. I just kept it to myself. (I thought I was pregnant with his child) On the way back to California, while his wife was asleep, he would want me to masturbate him while driving. When she would wake I would be told to stop.
Now when they bought a house in Lemon Grove I went to visit them. I stayed in the guest room. Again while his wife was asleep he would come into the room and have intercourse with me. this happened a few times. Then I go tired of it and told him to stop. I was not comfortable doing it. He agreed. He told me he did not know why he did it. He then told me he had sexual intercourse with two of his other sisters. He would wait til they were in the shower. I thought it was normal though due to other circumstances I was forced to be in as a child.
Anyways the Navy boy did his Navy and family thing. I was stuck with the emotional scars, now knowing that it was [not] normal and that he was just getting away with pedophilia behavior.
So when Jason Glen Thomason and his wife decided to sell their house and move to Cortez, Colorado I was glad. He told me before they moved that I could come over anytime. Well that was another lie. when I was in CO a few years back he refused to let me come over. Would not even help me when I was literally stuck in a bad position. I had never told anyone, except my husband about this. Holding it in is just more damaging.
So now that I have let it out I can move on.
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Your post made me physically ill while reading it. My heart truly goes out to you. I tell my daughters that there are some things worse than death. What you went through is far worse. Your brother is a monster and you are very brave. You have my deepest respect and sympathy go out to you.
thank you so much. it was hard, i did not even tell my therapists years ago. I guess I got tired of keeping it in and not allowing the world to see that family (blood) is NOT always thicker than water!
My heart goes out to you and my prayers.
thank you again.
Jesus. I am sorry. Takes a lot of courage to talk about it. Bloody hell.
thank you. I feel better though. letting it out. maybe it will help some poor other young souls to know that it [is not] their fault!
belyew, Yes. Very important for them to know it’s not their fault.
VERY! This was happening since I was a child and into adulthood. I guess telling others was a way to cope better. Do feel a lot better. i want to send this link to his wife to in hopes that she will talk to the children. suggestions?
Send it. You think he will stop? No, he will be doing it. These kind of people don’t stop.
you’re right. thank you!
Is this story true. Because of your schizophrenic activity on all of your blogs seem like an outcry.
NEVER been diagnosed as schizophrenic. So you see world that here is another nobody trying to get everyone to focus on their comment without even viewing the facts. If you were educated enough to actually view all the ACTUAL DOCUMENTATION FROM COURT AND TESTIMONY FROM OUR OWN DEPARTMENT OF JUSTICE then you would not make such rhetorical comments.